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Stop Believing Everything Online. Your Mental Health Is Worth More Than Any F*cking Trend

 



Be Honest. You spend a chunk of your day scrolling, don't you? Swiping through perfectly curated feeds, watching people live their seemingly perfect lives, and absorbing an endless stream of "information." From "expert" health gurus to miracle diets, it's all right there, relentlessly shoved into your eyeballs. And honestly? It's a goddamn trap, and it's time we talked about why you need to slam the brakes on believing every thing you see and hear online.

Even my advice should be read with a "ill make up my own mind, thanks" attitude. 

Most of it is utter bullshit. It’s a highlight reel, a money-making scheme, or just plain misinformation dressed up in pretty filters. And if you’re not careful, getting caught up in this online health charade isn't just annoying; it’s a direct assault on your mental health.

Think about it. One day, everyone's chugging celery juice. The next, it's all about bone broth. Then suddenly, carbs are the devil, only to be resurrected as your new best friend a week later. Intermittent fasting, extreme workout challenges, detox teas that promise to "cleanse" you (spoiler: your liver and kidneys already do that for free, you don't need a laxative disguised as health), obscure supplements, and fitness influencers with abs that look like they were carved by Michelangelo. It’s a ceaseless, dizzying carousel of "must-do" health fads

And what happens when you try to keep up? You start to feel inadequate. You look at your regular, perfectly healthy body and suddenly find flaws because it doesn't match the airbrushed ideal staring back from your screen. You feel pressured to try the latest restrictive diet, even if it leaves you feeling tired, irritable, and obsessed with food. You force yourself into workout routines that don't suit your body or lifestyle, leading to burnout or injury.

This constant comparison, this chasing of an unrealistic, often unsustainable, ideal, is a total mind-fuck, honestly. It breeds anxiety. It fuels self-doubt. It turns eating into a moral dilemma and exercise into a punishment. You end up feeling like a failure because you can't adhere to some random internet stranger’s highly specific, often highly paid-for, "wellness" regimen. This isn't health; this is a recipe for a spiral of negative self-talk and genuine mental anguish. Your peace of mind is worth more than any goddamn green juice cleanse touted by someone who probably has a team of editors and a nutritionist on retainer.

Let's be clear: genuine health is incredibly important. But genuine health isn't about following the herd or adopting every new trend that pops up online. It’s about building sustainable habits that serve your unique body and your unique life.

It's about eating a balanced range of foods that make you feel good, not depriving yourself because some influencer said so. It's about moving your body in ways you enjoy, whether that's dancing, walking, lifting weights, chasing your kids around the park or other more horizontal exercises – not forcing yourself through punishing workouts that leave you hating exercise. It’s about prioritising sleep, managing stress, hydrating, and listening to what your body actually needs, not what some "wellness guru" claims is the secret to eternal youth.

You don't need a magical supplement, a colon cleanse, or a restrictive diet designed for someone else's metabolism and lifestyle. You need consistency, common sense, and, frankly, a healthy dose of scepticism. If it sounds too good to be true, if it promises overnight miracles, or if it requires you to cut out entire food groups without medical supervision, it's probably total bullshit.

So, what's the takeaway here? It's simple: be discerning. Cultivate a healthy distrust of everything you see parading as "truth" online, especially when it comes to your health. Remember that most people online are presenting a curated version of reality, not the raw, unfiltered truth. Their perfect bodies, their flawless routines, their glowing reviews of the latest superfood – it's often a performance, a commercial, or just plain fiction.

Your mental peace and your physical well-being are too precious to sacrifice at the altar of online trends. Focus on creating a healthy lifestyle that works for you. Consult actual, qualified professionals (doctors, registered dietitians, certified trainers) if you have specific health concerns. Don't let the noise of the internet dictate how you feel about yourself or how you live your life.

Seriously, unfollow the accounts that make you feel like crap. Even this one if it helps. Mute the influencers pushing products you don't need. Stop comparing your real life to someone else's glossy highlight reel. Your journey is your own, and it's got nothing to do with keeping up with the next f*cking fad. Embrace your own healthy, sustainable path, and watch how much better you feel – physically and mentally. You deserve that peace.

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