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5 FREE online mental health resources

 We all need some support from time to time. Maybe you're struggling with a death in the family, a relationship breakdown or even your sexual and personal identity.  Seeking help online is a great way to anonymously get some advice, tips and resources.  Below are 5 FREE sites that offer varying services. We have gone through them and listed the benfits and limitations for all. As always, if you need help, ask a professional.  7 Cups – Anonymous Emotional Support & Community https://www.7cups.com Ever need someone to listen right now without judgment? 7 Cups offers one-on-one text chats with trained volunteer listeners, plus community forums and optional paid therapy. What you’ll see (screenshot carousel above): Simple, straightforward interface for chatting and browsing guides. Pros: Always-on chats : Access a listener 24/7, anonymously 7cups.com +1 . Robust topic-specific forums : Discussion groups for ADHD, grief, LGBTQ+, stress, etc. 7cups.c...

Why We Need to Say 'Fuck Off' to Influencers

  You're online, scrolling through feeds, and it's practically impossible to escape them: the "influencers." You know, those folks with their perfectly curated lives, their flawless skin, their aspirational (and probably sponsored) outfits, and their constant stream of "good vibes" and product recommendations. They're everywhere, peddling a dream that's often as fake as a three-dollar bill. And honestly people are starting to get  really   fed up with it. It's not just a gut feeling anymore, either. An article published recently in the Journal of Marketing Research by Lena Steindl, Sarah Steindl, and Nora Penz, titled "Too beautiful to be true? The effects of digitally enhanced beauty on social media." In the article they confirm all that supposedly "perfect" shit we see online, all those filtered faces and Photoshopped bodies, aren't just annoying; they're actively harming us. This study actually did the legwork. They...

Stop Believing Everything Online. Your Mental Health Is Worth More Than Any F*cking Trend

  Be Honest. You spend a chunk of your day scrolling, don't you? Swiping through perfectly curated feeds, watching people live their seemingly perfect lives, and absorbing an endless stream of "information." From "expert" health gurus to miracle diets, it's all right there, relentlessly shoved into your eyeballs. And honestly? It's a goddamn trap, and it's time we talked about why you need to slam the brakes on believing every thing you see and hear online. Even my advice should be read with a "ill make up my own mind, thanks" attitude.  Most of it is utter bullshit. It’s a highlight reel, a money-making scheme, or just plain misinformation dressed up in pretty filters. And if you’re not careful, getting caught up in this online health charade isn't just annoying; it’s a direct assault on your mental health. Think about it. One day, everyone's chugging celery juice. The next, it's all about bone broth. Then suddenly, carbs are t...

Caught in the Health Hype? Unplug Live!

  In today’s world, it feels like we’re constantly surrounded by messages about health. From the moment we open our phones in the morning to the ads that pop up on our screens all day long, we’re bombarded with information on the latest superfoods, the most effective workout routines, revolutionary detoxes, and supplements promising everything from boundless energy to eternal youth. Every influencer seems to be a self-proclaimed wellness guru, every news article highlights a new study, and every brand wants to sell us the secret to optimal living. The desire to be healthy, to feel good, to live a long and vibrant life – it’s a deeply human, incredibly positive aspiration. We all want to thrive, and taking care of ourselves is undoubtedly a pillar of a fulfilling life. But here’s the thing, and it’s a big one: this constant cascade of information, often presented with urgency and promising perfection, can become less about genuine well-being and more about an overwhelming, anxiety-i...

Stop Comparing Yourself to Others: You’re Not a Rotten Avocado

  Let’s get something straight right off the bat: You are not a bruised, overripe avocado sitting next to a picture-perfect Hass at the grocery store. Life isn’t a produce aisle, and yet, here we are, eyeballing everyone else’s seemingly perfect, glistening success and feeling like yesterday’s leftovers. It’s time to put an end to the madness—stop comparing yourself to others, and start embracing the wonderfully chaotic, sometimes-messy, and utterly unique masterpiece that is you . The Social Media Hall of Mirrors Social media is like one of those funhouse mirrors at the carnival—except it’s less “fun” and more “existential crisis.” Everyone is posting their highlight reels: tropical vacations, job promotions, flawless selfies (with just the right amount of Valencia filter), and artisanal avocado toasts that look like they belong in a museum. What you don’t see? The existential dread at 2 AM, the sink full of dishes, and the existential crisis over whether to text back “lol” or “ha...